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LOYALTY: IF WE REPLACED “COMMITMENT” BY “CONSENT”?
The question of consent is at the heart of the news with all its #metoo business. I found this text that is in line with what I think of the couple. “The question of consent now at the heart of sexuality. Strangely enough, she is quite absent from issues of couple and loyalty, where the rigidity of commitment denies the value of consent. Through all the work done by feminists and the various current affairs, we begin to understand that consent is central to the issue of sexual relations, and that it is highly ephemeral. Initiating a kiss does not commit to kissing. Sleeping one night is not worth subsequent…
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The honeymoon also exists among polyamorous
I’m not hiding, I’m polyamorous. I have just been asked how to find a balance, how to modify your apiary, but especially when. I think the adage adapts to all situations: you don’t make any important decision when you just fall in love. We have to leave time to see how this new relationship evolves and when it will fit into the harmony of the hive before turning everything upside down. Among the buzzwords that circulate in the polyamorous context, there is the notion of NRE. From the English “New Relationship Energy “. Translated into French, it is the first time of a new encounter, when you are so far…
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« FUCK YES! »
During my various searches on the net for a future book, I arrived on Mark Manson’s blog and on this article “fuck yes or no“, which I leave to your free appreciation. For my part, I fully agree with these words and his thoughts. Please feel free to tell me what you think. xoxo La Puce Think about this for a moment: Why would you ever choose to be with someone who is not excited to be with you? There’s a grey area in dating many people get hung up on — a grey area where feelings are ambiguous or one person has stronger feelings than the other. This grey…
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Instructions for use of a WOMAN (useful for some)
In response to my post giving the instructions for the use of men, I had a shroud from those gentlemen who dared to pretend that it is women who are complicated to understand and that it is never easy to satisfy them. Yet I find that we are easy to live in as a rule. So, in front of my blank page, I was forced to ask my experts for help to write you a short notice… So I leave them for today the control of the blog (and I’m not very reassured to give them the field free… But well, I also lost a bet…) Good reading! Take all…
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Regular Ass Plan or Sexfriend?
Following my previous post, in which I gave you the definition and differences between a Q plan and a sex friend, some languages have been untied … and the question—can a Q plan be regular without becoming a sex friend?—led me to question myself for a few days, until a discussion with Tigrou. The latter is a great expert on crushs of all kinds like my big brother. What are the differences between the Regular Q Plan (PQR) and the Sex friend? The regular Plan Q is defined itself by its name, it is simply a butt plane, a relationship based solely on the physical and pleasure of…
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If we looked at the inside of your swimwear…
This heat makes us want to laze on a deckchair … watching the male fairer struggles in front of us… Yes, gentlemen! Under our false air of Girl Scout, we are just like you. In this period of widespread rut, we love to hide behind our sunglasses or a book, to discover your most beautiful assets that you have been able to highlight… Observing this superb bridal parade reminds me of this drawing. According to Zep, we can guess your personality just by analyzing what’s in your swimwear… So gentlemen, who are you? xoxo La Puce
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My ex? I recycle them!
Some of my friends are surprised that I’m still in touch with most of my ex-boyfriends. The only one, I haven’t kept in touch is my ex-husband, but that’s another story. Even after years, I hear from them, they call me for advice and I am the godmother of some of their children (and they regret it… Who ordered Santa Claus the worst gift for parents… It’s me!!!) I think it’s not because you split up that you have to hate each other, quite the contrary. We must have the intelligence to separate in good terms, to keep in memory only the good moments spent together. As my new right…
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Ass Plan or Sex plan ?
Bimbo is always an inexhaustible source for me. For those who don’t know her, she was the boss’s personal assistant, with whom she had a lot of fun even though they were married. We have to relax in our jobs. In addition, nothing scares Bimbo, mainly in this area. I’ve always had a lot of cold sweat coming into the big boss’s office for fear of surprising them. Since my second dad left, she has been assigned to me (so I confirm here that I am doing very well on my own). To take care of and fill out her prom book, she has resumed her hunts and never hesitates…
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I can like the flirtatious encounter with mens, not with just anyone …
Despite the border closures and the block-out, I was able to see my colleagues again thanks to the new technologies… Long live my friends WhatsApp and Skype, which allow me to stay connected with them at a lower cost. Yes, G., the phone too, but the accountant almost died to receive my last bill, and since I still need him, I have to avoid astronomical bills by using it sparingly. So, as I said in the introduction, I retook my chatting around a cup of coffee (a good chocolate for me) by screen interposed. In three months, many stories have had time to tie, to untie and some questions will…
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Make sure you !!!
I find that for some time social networks (especially Twitter) have become a vast hunting ground for sex-thirsty people… Why not tell me? Quite, but not in a lie! For my part, I assume the person I am with my qualities and flaws. When I am asked to describe myself, I always say that I am a nice little whale, curious, polyamorous, fully invested in her job… So I already hear G. grabbing in front of her screen reading my previous words. Yes, I know I don’t look like a little whale since I managed to lose my 20 pounds, but that’s how I see myself again… To return to…
